Hi there, I am struggling to ask for help, and I don't really know where this would be categorised and this is basically a condensed version because it truly is a really long story. I don't really like sharing with therapists or people that judge me for expressing myself. I am a person who is well-connected and should be based on my career choice, which I find hard for me to express to therapists and face-to-face therapists, etc. But I really do not know what to do, I'm not endangering myself nor do I have thoughts to do, because life is precious and should be because of one storm should there be a quick solution, but I am crying for help.
I met a man 3 years ago and when we were first starting out he was literally perfect, in my eyes. Then over-time I started noticing things like women products in his house, his clothes having a "woman-ey" scent, earrings lying around, etc.
But he has a long-time partner, who have an extremely complicated relationship, because she is an extreme narcissist and she is nothing but a bully. She sent him to see a psychologist, which was when I met him, however I didn't know this until 6 months into the relationship.
When she basically made him go to another state for a holiday, she went through his phone without his consent, and starting stalking me, screaming at him for information on me. Whilst screaming at him too, she has "pictures" of me, which I didn't know because my partner took them while we were facetiming, which she is trying to use it as blackmail to him, of saying "I have pictures of her".
Now one year later, she still trying to stalk me, she apparently wants to threaten my health because they have an "estranged" relationship and despite blocking her on every social media platform and ensuring my corners are covered, I still have this sinking feeling that something is going to happen, and it keeps me up at night, feeling extremely anxious and no matter where I go and what I do I still feel like she will do something.
