Just checking in.

[PeppiPatty]

Hi All,

All your messages have really helped me geting through my son's difficult time. I've had space while thinking that I've had supportinve people around me chattering away and keeping close to me.

@Former-Member you have never over shared. When I first joined, I rember having that feeling for a long time then, just......threw the dishwater out of the tub and wrote my life story. the dirty water flew in the air everywhere and splashed all over the pavement. 

@Former-Member I love your writing. I think that you wrote that you were never asked 'how Are you,' when you were little or a teenager......havent we all girls experienced that and havent we all taken into our bodies all in different ways. I like very much how you write it because I felt it, I felt you and then you wrote about your husband......is he your healing person ?

@Former-Member how are you this morning ? Can we imagine going over to @Appleblossom s ( you don't mind do you Apple ?) with @Former-Member @TAB @Zoe7 @Zoe7 an @Bella2 @Decadian @Former-Member an @Shaz51  @Former-Member and drinking coffee infused with apricot and listening to music ? Can Arlo come? Can you come @Jacques and @Former-Member ? Maybe @Faith-and-Hope can too. @NikNik @CherryBomb and mods.

@TAB I'm not quite sure how a dude with hats and a personality will go......but are you going to try with your Dad again ? Is this what your saying ? The only respite I have ever had with my very angry and innappropriate Mum is when I've completely cut her out of my life for a while .......I used to be on here going on and on at her disgusting treatment of me. Even my Psychotherapist sees me for this tiny amount of money because she saw her at a function and realised everything I was complaining about was true..........

I'm not making this personal or anything but @TAB ....do you need the stress ?

On another fab. note..... All is good in my tiny world. 

I was suppossed to get the fasting blood test done at 8am this morning but I just woke up and fed myself a yummy salad with egg and cheese and cucumber and Paul Newman's honey mustard dressing......so will try again Monday morning..... lets all go crazy and eat tim tams.....my treat PeppiPatty 

[TAB]

hope tests go ok @PeppiPatty and yes brother said was dubious about what I told him until he took the there yest and me just staring as father rattled off list of things I must do, wont go there, but he brought it up later, I said when no one else was around it ten times as bad at least. anyway he has no clue and somehow has to be told that I have my own free will anyway shaking my head as I write that. today prob last visit for 2016 and 2017 anyway put it that way re is it worth it? No, its absolutely not, people are going cos think last xmas going to be alive and hes just lording it up literally haha

[utopia]

@Appleblossom. Yes I am cheeky. Think I'm known for that. Lol. So I'm putting you down for 5 t-shirts. Lol.
Well done for connecting the printer. I struggle with electronics at the best of times. I get frustrated and give up too early. I'll have to look into that in 2017 & learn to be more patient.
Have a great day everyone.
I'm off to spend 3 hours locked in a car with my mum and sister. And my son.
Then my brothers wedding this afternoon. I'm looking forward to it now.
Have a brilliant day. Look after yourselves and each other.

[TAB]

wow that's a big day @utopia hope it goes well .. and where's my tshirts... lol

[utopia]

Oh my god @PeppiPatty all those Tim Tams. Wish I was there to help eat them. Lol

[utopia]

@TAB. I've put you down for 30 tshirts - 1 for every day of the month. You can double up on months with 31 days. We will start productionsoon. But nneed your credit card details first. Or send the cash direct to me viaSane. Lol.
Hope you all have a great day.

[Decadian]

Aw @utopia

I love them - how long is it since I had one - I must be below my ration for 2016 and look - only 2 days left and one of them is nearly half over

I can eat a whole bunch of them - hang on - I have none in the house

Time to go shopping

Dec

[TAB]

Yes sent details re card 💳 plus 3 is fine😜lol

[Former-Member]

hello@teej

i think that it is excellent that you know when you can and cannot connect rather than over pushing yourself. 

there are no  clock in clock out times on here.

no checklists.

no promises, burdens, expectations, time frames etc etc etc....................................

therefore no need to apologise and especially do not feel guilty . note to self to read what i have just written. 

i find with myself it  is more i have a need to check on people because they are a part of my recovery at this time. They won't always be here and that is fine.

we all come and go, pass by, each and everyone leaving something of themselves that they have shared and helped someone at that time.

[TAB]

Well put 😀