Dear @BambiFawn
I so love your name and your fresh attitude.
I just wrote something about myself on introduce myself. I wrote this:
After many many years of thinking about selfharm.....I self harmed with having unusual relationships with suffering people. I would 'feel,' them injecting drugs and sort of co dependently attached myself to some suffering individuals in the community. It took me many years of therapy to understand that my self harming came from my Mum. I know it's an individual thing, but this was my journey.....it was a very very individual journey for me. It took me many years to understand my own dynamics and to rip myself away from harmful people.
Phew, I have never written about this,
I cannot believe I wrote this truth.
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Yesterday, the Pastor from my church came over and spent some time with Mr g and me. We were talking about The book Of Job. I understood that Job; had these situations happen to him and he only cursed himself, he didnt curse God.
His friends came over to lecture him by saying" You must have done something wrong in God's Eyes, here is how to fix yourself.
Job answers, I want to confront God and ask him and God Appears and tells his friends off for saying 'You must have done something wrong for these terrible things to happen to you."
God says that Job was right in not berating him but he says " These things happen because he is GOD. And gave Job twice more than what he had before.
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Self harming is such an individual thing isn't it?
@BambiFawn @Former-Member @MegMaggie @Awpgirl
