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06 Dec 2016 09:04 PM - edited 07 Dec 2016 05:56 PM
06 Dec 2016 09:04 PM - edited 07 Dec 2016 05:56 PM
Hi @Former-Member One of my first messages on this thread was to thank you and others for your kind messages the other day. I actually wasn't feeling up to making an appearance on the forums last night and as I mentioned in one of the messages, I was looking around on the forums last night and accidentally pressed the post button on one of the threads. Knowing that everyone would know I had been on here, I thought I'd do the right thing and say thankyou to you all for your messages. So I started this thread to do so. I was just going to say thankyou and go off, but people were kind enough to message me straight away and I quickly answered them.
I was going to reply to you properly at another time, when I was feeling a little bit better. It was late last night and I was very tired. I was hoping to reply properly to you today.
I could see that you had spent alot of time writing your message to me the other day (I think it was Friday night) and I was very grateful for that. Please know that I appreciated your message and I was going to write a nice reply.
No bad feelings on my part. Onwards and upwards, so the saying goes.
Thankyou @Former-Member for your kind message, much appreciated.
Thankyou very much for your kind messages @Appleblossom @Shaz51 @Decadian @Faith-and-Hope and @darrenhayes. I appreciate them very much. xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Thankyou @Former-Member for your message last night. xoxoxo
Thankyou for being there too @TAB Meow! How did it go with the lease?
Well, I went out after all, as my girl had been waiting for ages. Haven't been home long, so it was a long day. Big drive to walk around a tourist place up north, sat at the beach for a while, saw the prize home and then had a really lovely dinner on the way home. Time to rest now. xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
06 Dec 2016 09:15 PM
06 Dec 2016 09:15 PM
well hope you win it re 'prize home' ..well, ok if I don't ..lol @Former-Member .. glad you had a good day and didn't have to cook tonight .. yes leased signed as said on other thread
06 Dec 2016 09:21 PM
06 Dec 2016 09:21 PM
Read that after I typed my message, lol. @TAB That's good news. I guess, like you said, a bit scarey making a commitment. Good on you for making the big decision. Do you know when you are moving in? Did you get a nap today? Do you have more work coming up?
06 Dec 2016 09:24 PM
06 Dec 2016 09:24 PM
Hi @Kurra How are you feeling? What a huge week you had last week, probably will take a while to get back on top again. No need to reply if you're not feeling up to it. Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you. Hugs to you. xoxoxoxo
06 Dec 2016 09:26 PM
06 Dec 2016 09:26 PM
I could move in now if I wanted to @Former-Member .. still a few things to sort out that I wont mention, well lets just say I think they did alright out of it re the lease. Not crying about it, been onto landlord already, it will get sorted re bugbears ..yes been avoiding 'that' decision for at least the last 4 years, probably longer ..it will all be fine .. and no, no nap, and next work is 2 weeks time unless I go out chasing it ..see what happens ..prob should tho
06 Dec 2016 09:31 PM
06 Dec 2016 09:31 PM
Yes, bond etc very expensive @TAB
Wow! 4 years, well that is a big decision then.
I might have to go off for a bit now and have a rest, or do things before bed time.
You'll need a good sleep tonight.
06 Dec 2016 09:35 PM
06 Dec 2016 09:35 PM
yeah, bonds not a problem @Former-Member its just a few things on house that dont really work how they should, and tried getting power on then cancelled it cos looked like was going to be paying for 2 properties re A, B eg it so need to get meter number etc its fine and yes big sleep coming up ..hope you do too
06 Dec 2016 10:28 PM
06 Dec 2016 10:28 PM
Hi @Former-Member
I just found an old post from a few weeks ago where you asked me how I was and started to chat. I missed it at the time .. had a lot going on .. and missed a whole week of notifications.. Sorry .. I think its worth sorting out issues .. and it is amazing how little misunderstanding start .. one thing I like about the forums .. is that is it is a written medium .. not a spoken one .. and if I did not understand why something happened .. I can check back .. and figure out why.
I like my showers after housework too .. no point getting clean in the morning and then dirty cleaning the house for everyone else .. who says women arent logical!
For a long time I figured I was just lousy re EQ .. but I think the problem in my family was that we all were lousy at EQ.
Glad you are still posting .. I am a bit stretched to answer .. but I firmly believe in the values of this forum .. and want it to be a good culture for people.
06 Dec 2016 10:47 PM
06 Dec 2016 10:47 PM
07 Dec 2016 10:59 AM
07 Dec 2016 10:59 AM
Hello @Former-Member,
So sorry! I have just tried to email you now, maybe try to reply to that email and see if it works?
Lunar
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