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I couldnt put the whole version on here re 'been thru a lot' but all a result of choices I made ..gawd knows.. yeah it will be okay here, just happier when get things a bit more secure and private few bits and pieces to to do @Former-Member

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Oh wow!  @TAB  Sounds like alot of things need doing there.  Will the landlord do most of it?  I hope so.  Or cheaper rent, of you do the jobs?????

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school still has 5 days left here 😞

Unfortunately my ex got away with everything in the end. after 3 years of court, him being found guilty, then two appeals, the final where he 'won'. at least that part is over. now family court trial will be next year i guess.

@TAB I hope that the landlord helps. One landlord i had was really slow to do anything, but if i offered to do the work myself he was suddenly much quicker to provde the things i needed at least...

@Former-Member - are you ok tonight? yo said you've not been going well, whats happening for you, if you want to talk about it that is.

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it took like 2 minutes @Former-Member lol got really good tape 'borrowed' from work lol, it was just the coming home and realising I could have been visible to passersby on street while playing on computer ..not a good feeling

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yeah he's interstate, and told him things need to be done @Former-Member he just say send the bills not sure sure about that, will see what happens with aircon first. im happy to do locks and blinds  if get really energetic fix his doors that dont fit cos use all the time and so annoying, oh and something out the back to block out bogan neighbour, well found a huge sheet, washed it and hung it up under back verandah, then realised it blocked their field of view so may just leave it there, well til get cane blinds etc @Former-Member

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Lol. Free entertainment for them @TAB 😂

Oh no. More court next year @Former-Member. I'm so sorry for all the stress you go through.

I forgot that the states have different school terms. My girl finished 2 weeks ago. She's senior. Primary finished today.
I had to go off my laptop, internet slow tonight. I'm on phone now, too slow. I feel silly talking about my "stuff". I'd rather hear if you're ok. 😊
I honestly don't know what goes on with me. I don't understand why I'm ok, then I'm in the pits again. I've been so fatigued, stressed, depressed and anxious. I'm very sensitive and find life very stressful. Wish I had an answer.
Pre Christmas, Christmas and after Christmas is an emotional rollercoaster. Family "stuff", dad passed away Christmas years ago etc.

Enough about me. 😨😯❤

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Oh ok, yeah, send him the bills @TAB 😊
Be nice when all is fixed.

I better go and get ready for bed @Former-Member. I'll be back on if you feel you need to chat. Sounds like you have alot going on. Hugs to you. 😙💕
I understand what it's like, the PTSD, working etc......... feel for you.

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hugs for you @Former-Member

please dont minimise your pain or situation, your stuff is not silly. Sounds like things have been hard. I don't know why there isn't a 'cure' or simple way to jsut be better, more mentally well. Usually christmas is just awful for me too, bad memories, feel lonely etc. and This will be my first with out my kids.. so i can understand how its a roller coaster for you. 

I'm sorry to hear about your dad, do you have any tradition or way to remember him at Christmas?  

if too hard to reply on phone thats ok, here if you want to chat htough, hugs xx

lj 

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yeah may have been last nite was in that room for a while der lol @Former-Member  ..and well I wish I could be some help to you and please get help if you need it 

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yeah am struggling here, well physically and tonite. think bed soon @Former-Member @Former-Member oh the sheet/table cloth well its really heavy whatever it just fell done so stuck it up again lol