Hot Chocolate Anyone ?

[Former-Member]

Oh my gosh @Faith-and-Hope So jealous of the European Winter, how fun! Goodluck christmas shopping!

That's good she listened to you, would've been too big of a weekend atleast she can just get prepared for her big run now! Have fun in the city 🙂 @Shaz51

[Former-Member]

Aw kiki that sounds like a hard time for you right now, is there anything that he likes to do with you to make himself feel better, like having a quiet night in and just chatting together.

It sounds like you both need to do some self-care, especially for yourself. Is there something that you can do this afternoon to get some space and clear your head a little bit?

Take care,

Lunar

[kiki]

thanks Lunar ☺
he is watching movies, his fave soothing/distracting thing and i am reading (my fave!).
i really should go out for another walk but am very tired. i wish we could have hugs cause they always make me feel better but he hates being touched at the best of times and really cant bear it when he feels extra bad. tomorrow is a new day! i might plan to see a friend or 2 over the weekend so i can do a big unloading. lucky friends haha!!! thanks again xoxoxo

[Former-Member]

That's a shame you can't get cuddles, but glad he is enjoying the movies and you are reading, sounds nice!

Have a nice weeknd seeing your friends and debriefing, make sure you get some big hugs from them 🙂

[Shaz51]

Hello @kiki, @Former-Member

he is watching movies, his fave soothing/distracting thing -- My hubby does this too , so I sit with him and watch the movie too xx

his other distracting thing is watching  youtubes on the computer

[Shaz51]

Hello @PeppiPatty

how are you today my friend xx

how has your day been

[PeppiPatty]

Hi @kiki

How are you ? 

My name is PeppiPatty,

I do not know of your story, I might try and find it. ARe you a carer for your husband? Yes, I can write that definately that the Doctors would not be doing enough for him. It' so sad. 

I'm also a carer for my husband. It's really hard because you always go into ......

him him him and then you but slowly slowly.....you gotta end up thinking about yourself first.

We both just came down South to visit his Father. I said to his Dad........... Well, my hubby is working now....he is a proffecional back seat driver..... 

Hope your well today, Be Well, 

PP

[Shaz51]

Hello @PeppiPatty xx

@kiki question is at

Re: partner trying so hard to get help!!!

[Shaz51]

Hello @PeppiPatty, @Faith-and-Hope and @Shimmer

I think I need a coffee, Hubby is thinking of going early tomorrow , I think a sleepin would be nice first

Oh well coffee first , then hang the clothes out

[Shimmer]

@Shaz51 can you fall back asleep after hubby gets up?