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30 Apr 2025 09:49 PM
01 May 2025 12:05 PM
01 May 2025 12:05 PM
Just had a big fight with mum 😔
Basically I don't care enough about her and don't do enough for her.
I told her to go live with her son. Didn't go down well.
01 May 2025 12:13 PM
01 May 2025 12:13 PM
Sounds like today this repeated assertion by your mum that you're not doing enough has struck a nerve @Snowie which is absolutely understandable.
How are you feeling now? Are you taking a bit of time and space away from your mum at the moment to let things cool down?
01 May 2025 12:30 PM
01 May 2025 12:30 PM
Just annoyed @Ru-bee
I left her in tears, but I'm not standing there and listening to all the things I do wrong.
It is repeated behaviour. Heard it all before.
Just made a cuppa and trying to calm down a bit.
01 May 2025 03:32 PM
01 May 2025 03:32 PM
Just had my psych cancel my appt. for Monday. Was meant to be the last one before she took 6 weeks off 😔Only a paycheck.
01 May 2025 03:50 PM
01 May 2025 03:59 PM
01 May 2025 03:59 PM
01 May 2025 04:09 PM
01 May 2025 04:25 PM
01 May 2025 04:25 PM
Why should I care if she doesn't.
Yeah, go get a new one. I can't start from the beginning again. I haven't got it in me. [edited by moderator]
01 May 2025 04:54 PM
01 May 2025 04:54 PM
Sitting with you @Snowie i know it’s hard. It’s not fair
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