I am going to note steps in my diary so I keep calm about it rather than get too upset.

I can also let go of the choirs and let the kids muck around there. But need to make sure the point gets through first.

I think I was restrained .. I just said that I would think she was "insincere" in her paid work .. I could have chosen a great many others ways to describe the situation. Maybe we will still be posting and I can share what happens later.

Are you alright tonight? @Faith-and-Hope