I have a feeling that intrusive SI is partly about situation not just a skills training ... thats my 5 cents worth.  Can anyone on your care team ... have a family session and do some intervention that way? @BlueBay Maybe others are letting you down more than you doing the letting down ... reciprocity needs to be in all relationships.

I have struggled with SI for 30 years now .. I do get better at dealing with it ... but it can still get dicey.... as I have recently posted.