Yeah my experience is such that I have rarely sweated the small stuff.

Went out yesterday to pick up son after busking.  The door was left open and the screen door too as he is always carting keyboard in and out and I forgot to slam door after me. I sometimes have made being queen of vague into a virtue .. is it carelessness, absentmindedness, or did I just have to vague out the non essential to simply survive. I know I do care ..

Your posts are lovely, intelligent and down to earth.  It is great having you on the forum.

Just wondering how you are going @Decadian havent seen you posting for a few days.