@Shaz51 @Oaktree @tyme @MJG017 

Well that quickly turned...just recovering in the car after my husband had a meltdown over something I disagreed on. When he gets stressed he quickly turns to defensive and takes out his stress on others. Its really not good. He is stressed about all the things we need to pack for camping. 

I called him up on it. But it does leave me rattled. After a peaceful day yesterday...this today! I really think he self sabotages his happiness.  He was happy yesterday and smiling yesterday and today he is in a hole.

Will this ever get better?

His emotional regulation is terrible. 

I always discalate arguments.  And walk away when he is too angry to talk. How do you manage this..friends I'm hurt and with a lump in my throat.