Night Shift

[Appleblossom]

Goodnight @Shaz51 .. lol

Maybe its for the best I cant drink coffee this late in the evening.  Chat later

[PeppiPatty]

@Appleblossom thats a good idea, I'lle start up that thread again.........

I am still having to go back to some messages...one is your me thinks.....

Could you take that manipulative girl a walk to sop her menipulation? I always wished that I gave birth to a girl. 

My poor son has a LOT on his plate. e's sedided to go to work on Saturday and he is going to see the police on Friday. My oldest son is talking to him and suggesting he goes to the police to save his new son who is about 8 years old now. He's being brought up very badly. 

[Appleblossom]

I am hoping that a walk will get us on the same page again, though I have things on so that I am out 2 nights and they fend for themselves and then I cook for Sat Sun and he will have meat, though pumpkin soup for when she is around. I do try and cater.

Glad your son has work and is dealing with his abuse issues.  It is a long journey, it helps to be available and I am sure you will be.

Some people couldnt understand why I wanted to be available for my 23 yo .. its just that if you can be .. when they need it and they are not too old ... it can make a difference.

Good Luck to your oldest too @PeppiPatty

.. if he can get a bit of hope for his son .. it will help .. I didnt realise you were a granny!

[PeppiPatty]

Dear @Appleblossom

I think that paople are quick to judge but they have NO idea what is happening in your life. You just do what you need to do with your 23 year old. I paid therapy, good enough Mum, tutoring but my oldest wont talk to me and it is how it is. 

No, no granny yet. Please wiat for the poster to come up,,,,,,,I might soo you leter but busy doing art now... 

[Jacques]

Hi All thinking of all the forumites, especially @PeppiPatty, @Mazarita, @Appleblossom, @Shaz51, @chookmojo and @Former-Member.

I hope you are managing @Former-Member, you are in my thoughts, you are almost done with the school term, i am so proud of you, it has been a huge struggle but you have nearly made it.

@PeppiPatty, i hope you, hubby, your son and Mr Arlo are going ok, you are an amazing woman, you manage so much.

@Mazarita wishing you all the best on your trip, have a safe one.

@Appleblossom, i hope you and your son had a good day.

I am just wanting to say hi to you all, it has been a while since i posted and i want you all to know you are in my thoughts even when i don't post i still read your messages to each other.

Take care all, hope you have a peaceful night.

Jacques

[eth]

Thanks @Appleblossom. I'm doing ok. Still having a lot of anxiety and shaking hands at times but muddling along. I also feel we have common ground. Looking forward to seeing my adult child and their husband and my grand-daughter for the last week of April. They are coming to stay with me. Doing my best to make the flat toddler-friendly. Excited to see them all.

[eth]

Hi @PeppiPatty thanks. I'm in the NT so it's not homeswest but it is public housing and going ok.

[Shaz51]

Thank you for thinking about me @Jacques

How has your day been today

[Shaz51]

Hello @Appleblossom, yes i can only drink coffee if i really feel like one  and my hubby never has coffee at night

How are you today

[Jacques]

Hi @Shaz51,

I am doing better, i have been able to calm things down and use high levels of music to drown out everything happening here. 

i feel calmer, and not at crisis point, so i am happy.

Hope hubby is doing better today, tell him he has so much support and so many people thinking about him here.